Tag: power of thoughts

  • Turn Obstacles into Opportunities

    Turn Obstacles into Opportunities

    Suppose disappointment without anger is the mark of an old soul, and not being disappointed is the mark of a really old soul. In that case, living your own life purpose and trusting your own life so thoroughly that every step on its path is valued more than where it is “supposed to take you”,…

  • Turn Thoughts to Thinking

    Turn Thoughts to Thinking

    “Turn thoughts to thinking.” When this idea first came to me on one of those morning walks, it lit a light bulb in my head. Everything became crystal clear, including many ways I could use it to illustrate and explain how the mind works, or not.

  • Your Soul’s Plan

    Your Soul’s Plan

    Friday evening, 8:45 pm, I was still in the office, waiting for yet another client to show up. It was a long day, but my client sounded urgent when she called me at noon. She said she only needed one hour. I let her squeeze into my calendar.

  • The Unfinished Life

    The Unfinished Life

    Who would go to the Big Island of Hawaii to stay in the place they rent for more days than they go about exploring? Not me. I had my snorkel trips booked, my hiking shoes packed for the cold mountain summit, my 5 swimming suits selected…

  • Journeys or Destinations

    Journeys or Destinations

    In my childhood, I dreamed that when I grew up, I would marry a train conductor, so I could, in my imagination, travel for free! I shared this dream with my sister and a close friend. The friend said she had a feeling, that in the future more people would be flying to travel. I…

  • What Does Confidence Have to Do with Flavour?

    What Does Confidence Have to Do with Flavour?

    Many people I come across understand that many of their issues—whether emotional, mental, behavioural, and perhaps even physical—can come down to a lack of self-confidence. Heather, my new client had just come to see me about her body-image and perceived difficulty in dating when I mentioned she may just lack a little confidence. “Yes, I…

  • Saving Her from Drowning

    Saving Her from Drowning

    A new client today asked me, before leaving the office, “Do you always use the same words in your sessions?” After seeing a puzzled look on my face, he explained, “I mean, you used the word God a few times in our session.” As far as I could recall, I said the word God because…

  • I Eat Vegetables. I’m Not a Vegetarian

    I Eat Vegetables. I’m Not a Vegetarian

    Kathy told me that she just left another job–or, more accurately, was let go by another employer. As I listened to her talk of her problems, her words came out as fast as her footsteps. I asked her, trying to slow her down, “What would you like to work on through hypnotherapy?”

  • Many Ways to Do Many Things

    Many Ways to Do Many Things

    It was such an ease to work with Victor. Some people have that aura. I felt it when we had a Skype consultation, where he told me what he was at crossroads. He’d had a successful career over the last twenty years making video games. But there was constant stress to meet aggressive deadlines, and…

  • Teardrop Speaks

    Teardrop Speaks

    Brenda’s Teardrop is her ego. The ego is the mind-made entity that consists of a bundle of thoughts that occur frequently. In the bundle of thoughts are all the things that we’ve identified with ourselves – job positions, relationships, accomplishments, disappointments, our successes and failures, what other people think of us, all those thoughts form…